Our Journey To Forever

FANATIC

2011-04-16T17:08:00.000-07:00

It’s funny to think how a mere basketball game could immensely affect one’s emotion. True, I love watching basketball games especially so when my fave team is on the run. You just don’t know how happy I am when my team wins. It’s like you wanna throw out a real big party. And how heart breaking it is when they lose. I always see to it that I keep myself updated with my own favorite team -- their standing, schedule of games, stats, etc. I admit that it’s the only show I prefer to watch if you would let me choose one though I am also trying to enjoy watching other shows apart from watching basketball. Right! You could say I am a fanatic, a proud Ginebra fan at that, hehe.

I still could recall, I was in college when I have erratic heartbeats whenever I watch their games without a single miss, huh! You could attribute it to my having a big admiration to their once-small-forward player Vince Hizon, who is now happily married, poor me, hehe! Well, the feeling’s long gone as well as the man. He’s no longer part of my all-time favorite team but still, I am one of the million Ginebra-fans who keeps cheering and egging them on to always keep that NEVER-SAY-DIE SPIRIT.

New players came and continued to live up to the fans’ expectations. The ball is round. They could win the championship or they could not. But still, I am hoping they have the win every game because it’s one of the things that make me happy. Yeah, “ang babaw ko”, you might think that. I won’t mind, it’s a good feeling to be true to one’s own self…

Tete-a-Tete with MamaLira

2010-06-01T23:40:00.000-07:00

There were several occasions in the past when I wrote I am down and sick, et cetera, et cetera. I hate to hit the publish button and tell the world I am at it again. sigh! Did I just say it? LOL!

It is a little hard to keep myself healthy and it is so when I push myself too hard. Doing things which were extremely way out of my comfort zone had zapped me off of all my zest and energy. It slowly took its toll on me.

I hate being sick. But looking at how I did things a couple of months back, I was just like:

"Hey, I was able to make it?!!!"

With all that being said, there's one thing that I so look forward to despite the heavy work schedule. Blogpal Mama Lira of Tasteful Voyage was to set foot again in no less than her own hometown where she was born and bred. Incidentally, I came from the same place too... :-) Isn't that more than a coincidence and wonderful?

Being blogpals, we shared a lot of things in common especially in doing moolah out of our respective blogs, hehe. With her short stint in the Philippines, I was a little doubtful if she could ever share a little of her time with me. Understandably, ten (10) days with family and relatives is never sufficient.

I was happy to admit I was wrong. Mama Lira took the time and the effort (despite the heavy rains) to meet me along with a newbie blogger with excellent writing skills, Gemma Massey, who blogs from Living the Beautiful Life. Gemma was a high school classmate and a college school mate (we both came from the same university but enrolled in different majors- she took up AB English while I majored in Political Science). Both Gemma and Mama Lira got acquainted at Facebook before they've even met. See how powerful social networking sites can be?

Mama Lira, Gemma, & Yours Truly

Prior to meeting Mama Lira, I've mentioned to Windy how giddy I was with the sheer anticipation of seeing her in the flesh. When the day finally took place, I made a phone call to Windy and informed him I was with Lira and then handed over the phone to her. Lira is junior to me by five years or more and Windy had this quick repartee...

"OMG! Why did she ever called herself Mama Lira?"

You'll get to understand it, Windy IF you get to be a mother one day, hahahaha!

You must be dead curious what were the topics discussed in our very short tete-a-tete . Well, your guess is as good as mine ;-)

Mama Lira is a very simple lady. What she is at the blog is a persona of a genuine personality- no pretensions, not superficial. I am aware that the limited time spent with her is not enough to build such a strong bonding but she has created that strong impression and impact on me.

Building rapport and camaraderie at the blogs is so imaginary and often unreal. But when one gets to meet and to talk with the other person, face to face, it makes online relationships hit a natural realism and enhances the relationship.

A Glorious and Blessed Day!

2010-06-01T19:12:00.000-07:00

The past week was very exhausting but very remarkable. I had to get up at 4AM for our week-long devotional prayers at Church. I need to be there before 5:30AM (You can tell the difference because I have never done this when I was too busy for the Automated Elections). This is in preparation for the ordination of ministers which is history in the making for our Church.This is happening in Mindanao for the first time. Ordination is a sacred event which normally takes place at the Central Temple in Metro Manila. Our locale is very blessed to have been chosen as the venue. So you could just imagine the preparations the brethren did for this glorious event in sheer anticipation of meeting the Church's Executive Minister.

Indeed, the ordination itself (May 29) was a day filled with excitement. As early as May 28, the brethren from different parts of Mindanao began to flock in the Church's vicinity. Security was tight. The human barricade could hardly control the flocking crowd.

In its entirety, the event was a blessed one. Never in my wildest dreams have I thought I can be given a chance to be part of such a glorious event.

Praise be unto God!

Skin Problems May Need Special Care

2010-05-29T08:25:00.001-07:00

What would you say to a person who asks you what is the best acne treatment? If you have not already asked your own self this same question, you can count on being queried by your own children some day.

There are countless medications that boasts of immediate cure results. This makes it really difficult to know which really works. Besides, skin treatment is not a simple matter.

There are skin specialists for acute skin problems. Generally a General Practitioner is qualified to advise what treatment is needed.

The Trials Of The Teenage Years

2010-05-29T08:20:00.001-07:00

It is usual for most teenagers to turn to their peers when they need to know how to treat acne. It is understandable why they turn to their peers.

Most elders in the family are too busy with their lives and the younger members are left pretty much to themselves as they learn to cope with issues during their teenage.

Being the only daughter in the family, I am fortunate that my Mom always had time for me and she has always been there when I needed to find out solutions.

We Should Never Take Things For Granted

2010-05-29T08:12:00.001-07:00

Most of us take things for granted. Whether this is a result of being careless or having an attitude that it is time not well spent thinking too far ahead. It is a quiet acceptance that life is going to be like that and it will not suddenly change with a whole load of wonderful surprises.

It also goes for the vitamins that our body constantly needs. We take it for granted that the food we eat daily is sufficient for our health requirements.

However, I have seen children here who display that they lack the amount of vitamins for their proper growth. Awareness of such simple though highly important issues must be constantly driven home by Health Authorities, Schools and the Media.

Belated Birthday Greetings for My Brother

2010-05-29T03:42:00.000-07:00

The month of May is filled with celebrations for my family. My mother and the youngest brother both celebrated their respective birthdays in May. To add to the list, Mummy C recently celebrated her natal day.

We had a special celebration at home for Mark. He is the youngest sibling of three and does the vocals for the band, Kuerdas. I would usually take the day-off at work just to prepare stuffs at home whenever a member of the family celebrates their respective birthday. However, my brother's celebration was very different as I did not plan something big for him because of my busy work schedule. Everything went impromptu. I only ordered some foods and I cooked the pasta myself. It was just a simple celebration.

I need to mention how naughty my brother was. A month prior to celebrating his birthday, he informed his friends it was his big day. His close friends then made their attendance at home on April 26 believing it really was his birthday. They all laughed at themselves to know that they were tricked by my brother, LOL!

It may come late as it is, but still, I want to wish my brother the best things in life. As he blew the candles on his cake and wished for himself, I too wished that he may find true happiness, peace and contentment as he traverses on his life-long journey. May his wishes come true. May God bless him with good health, serenity and may he continue to actively glorify the Lord according to His precepts.

Belated Happy Birthday, Mark!

Skin Health And Condition Needs Attention Too

2010-05-27T00:50:00.001-07:00

More especially for us who live in the humid equatorial and tropical region, we have to contend to our skins being sweaty and oily because of the temperatures.

Then add to it that the air around us is never getting less but more contaminated, it makes atmospheric conditions the best for certain skin problems.

What do we when we need blackhead treatment. This makes our skin look tarnished and is a reflection of poor personal skin care.

It is a good routine of being careful about our skin condition that will help in many ways.

The Dreaded Acne Problem For Women

2010-05-27T00:44:00.001-07:00

Oh! the dreadful acne that all girls and women wish it would never happen to them. The problem with acne is that it will happen at the worst possible time and there the need to endure that embarrassing self-conscious moments in front of others.

Some have very sensitive skin that does not take kindly to chemical based acne treatment. I know this for a fact as I have seen others whose acne went out of control after they applied such treatment.

Fortunately, for those who have very sensitive skin there is an alternative. They can avail of natural acne treatment. This would not exacerbate their acne condition.

The Extras That I Need To Stay Healthy

2010-05-27T00:39:00.001-07:00

Despite all the attention that I have been giving to my health condition, I keep hearing about the need that I should take supplements to enhance.

It is said that as our body ages, we need to provide our body with that needed extra to keep ourselves fit and strong. The problem is that there are so many supplements and a vast range of products. Which one should I choose?

I guess I will need to first get sound advice from my medical Doctor before I start to buy supplements.

Can Cheap Also Be Good?

2010-05-27T00:33:00.001-07:00

Today, more so than ever before, we look for purchases that is not only cheap but we also want it to be good. Good in a practical way that the product or services will be reliable.

Take for example when it deals with cheap insurance. Most people would balk at there being such a thing because there must be a sound financial establishment that will provide protection.

In a dwindling Economy, the market forces do affect the selling price of goods and services. The competition out there does make it possible for there being such a thing now as cheap and good.

I Will Have To Learn More About Computer Hardware

2010-05-27T00:26:00.001-07:00

I have to admit that I am rather daft about Computer hardware items even though I have been using a Computer for several years.

Just the other day, I overheard one of the Office staff discussing about her Computer being very slow. She was given all sorts of possible causes that would make her Computer to take an unduly longer time to respond.

It was interesting to hear the conversation until she was told to upgrade her mac memory. That is where I began to lose my understanding when the hardware item is being mentioned.

I am sure that for those who are technically Computer savvy, this kind of discussion can go on for several hours.

What Affordable Solutions Do Filipinos Have During Summer?

2010-05-27T00:17:00.001-07:00

This has been a very difficult year for most Filipinos. It is because of the oppressive hot weather. As is known, energy cost is not cheap in the Philippines and this makes air conditioning in Filipino homes mostly out of reach.

What is affordable are ceiling fans to most Filipinos. It helps some but of course it can never cool down the room temperature as would an air conditioner.

The other solution may be seen at the Malls. Most Filipinos who can no longer bear the heat inside their homes, they would go to the Malls where there is air conditioning. They would stay there as long as possible and perhaps have a meal or do some window shopping.

Birthday Surprise for Mummy from the Philippines With Love

2010-05-21T17:00:00.000-07:00

Four days ago, I deliberately connived with My Prince about the surprise I wanted for her Mum's natal day. My Prince and I had talked about it a few weeks back and we have been pretty excited searching for the best gift for Mum. Regrettably, my hectic schedule did not permit me to look around for the most wonderful present as there was very limited time spent in front of the PC. My Prince then suggested to keep it simple and that a bouquet of flowers will do. I then asked him to keep his mouth mummed, LOL!

I wanted it to be a surprise. I did the purchase online because it's the only way to have the flowers sent on her birthday. This is the first time I have done it. I would usually do it by courier and it would take a month or so before she could have her gifts. I could now imagine the look of surprise on Mum's face while receiving the flowers and the birthday card. It was a little difficult choosing the best looking one as there were too many online sites with equally beautiful offers.

The long search was over when I've found this one which my Prince agreed that Mummy would love:

It was a little expensive. My Prince got a little worried and asked if I could afford it. I answered him in the affirmative. It wasn't actually the question of sending the expensive or cheap item. It's always the thought that counts, NOT the price.

Mummy C certainly deserves nothing but the best on her birthday. She is a great woman and a great Mum to all her 3 kids. She was able to raise them up admirably in her lonesome. I am grateful because if not for her, I won't have the best Mahal in the world. I thank the Lord for this wonderful blessing. She has been so nice to me and I can't wait to meet her real soon.

Happy Birthday, Mummy!

P.S:

Upon speaking to the CSR of the online flower shop on the phone just now, she assured me to have the bouquet of flowers delivered at 2PM of May 22, 2010. I also made a special order to add some touch of white flowers to the actual photo. The CSR sent me a confirmation of my order via email:

Hi Ellaine,
Our courier has confirmed your gift should be delivered by 2pm today. It is now 10.04am in Sydney Thank you for your order.
Kind regards,
Mary Ellen

Diamonds Are A Girl's Best Friend

2010-05-20T08:09:00.000-07:00

So it is said and how so true. Not only are diamonds the first thing on a girl's mind when it comes to her selection of rings. It is also become a memorable event when she goes shopping in search for the one that suits her best from a wide range of diamond engagement rings

I know that I will soon be experiencing this and I wonder if there will be enough money to buy a diamond ring. As long as there is something to remember this once in a life time occasion, I would accept any diamond ring within my budget.

There Must Be A Commitment To Be Fit

2010-05-18T07:24:00.000-07:00

I was brought up believing that "early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise". But really now, in our present times, this is not possible. There's just too many distractions which neither makes it easy to go to bed early nor to rise early too.

Health is always facing the brunt of lack of physical exercise. We zip back and forth in automobiles and use every possible device that would lessen muscular tiredness. There is hardly time after each workday to do some physical workout.

Thanks to the availability of fitness equipment it has now become possible to keep to a regular physical exercise routine. This may be done at a gym on the way home from work or even at home.

Time and Tide Waits For No Man

2010-05-15T08:21:00.000-07:00

The election period is not over not until June 9, 2010. There is a prevailing resolution that all organic employees of the Commission are not allowed to file a leave of absence not until June 30, 2010. The good thing is that, we won't be working our a$$e$$ off like we used to. No more overtimes. It means we don't have to report for work on extended hours during weekdays, legal holidays, Saturdays and even Sundays.

That's me caught in the most compromising situation- feeling so dead tired!

What a relief it has been!

As you can obviously notice, this blog has almost been idle because of the toxic work schedule. However, I made sure that my other blog, Lainy's Musings is regularly updated- at least one article a day. I can't imagine how I was able to juggle blogging and my regular work on a 8-7 basis. .

After the winning local candidates here in GenSan were proclaimed at 8:30 PM of May 12, 2010, I had more time to be in front of the PC and write stuffs which has been creeping through my head. I haven't been around as frequently as I could and I am trying to make up for my absence.

It's like I am a woman possessed. I have been writing endlessly and hitting the publish button constantly over at my other blog as if there's no tomorrow, LOL! I used to believe a published article needs ample time for exposure before a new post is published. But, taking in mind what my brilliant blogpal Windy told me:

Time and Tide Waits For No Man.

So I told myself: The heck with hits and exposure! I will write for as long as I am able to!

I hope you could all keep up with all the recent published posts. There are still many more to come. Here's hoping that my constant presence isn't that agitating when I get to bare the hurting truths about blogging, LOL!

If you want to read more about blogging stuffs, click away the links below:

There is a Solution for What I Miss on TV

2010-05-14T06:13:00.000-07:00

Just when I thought I had no solution to having missed my favorite TV Programs, here comes the Slingbox.

What an amazing feat of electronic technology?

Imagine being able to view TV that is transmitted from any other part of the World. Woohoo! what a delight this contraption would make for TV viewing pleasure.

Now I have to go and check out the price before making my decision. I am already half sold on it.

Mama Dearie's Birthday Celebration & Some Mother's Day Notes

2010-05-09T08:10:00.000-07:00

Prior to celebrating my Mother's birthday on Labor Day, she had earlier mentioned to me how she would like it celebrated. Mind you, she has been mentioning it to me since last year. She said that she would love to have a beach "Hawaiian" theme party and with my brother's band, Kuerdas performing for her and for her invited guests.

As her birthday was fast approaching, I did not have any qualms organizing it because it also turned out that Kuerdas was contracted to perform at the Bikini Open by the beach, too! Things were at our advantage as we did not have to rent a sound system, have budget worries of the band's PF, etc., etc., All we needed to do was to don our Hawaiian costumes and head for the beach :-)

Indeed, it was a night of fun, reggae party. What made it all the more fun and exciting was when the 10 candidates for the Bikini Open 2010 paraded on center stage in their skimpy swim wears. It made quite a lot of men and women drooling, LOL!

Bikini Open Wannabe Contestants, LOL!

The sumptuous foods that were laid down on the table, 5 courses and the 60 kilos roasted hog and some favorite desserts made us all forget our diet. Sigh!

I wanted the celebration to be something different for my mother. And yes, I am glad it all went as planned.

For more proofs, just visit Photo's of Mom's 50th Birthday Celebration.
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It almost took me forever hitting the publish button for the above post because of my toxic work schedule. Mother's day is a day before the Automated Elections in the Philippines. This is history in the making and being a huge part of it is something that I should not be boasting, not unless everything turns out well :-)

Despite the negative publicities, we have been working under pressure to ensure that everything will work as planned. So you can just imagine how taxing and draining it is for me.

Yet, I can't let this day pass without having to pay tribute to my mother who is the ultimate source of nagging inspiration, LOL! Kidding aside, though Mama Dearie and I would often discuss and argue over petty and trivial stuffs, I can not discount the fact that she has been the best mother that she can be.

I remember my mother telling me that her entire family (parents, brothers and sisters) were all against their marriage. Prior to my parents' wedding day, her elder sister even persuaded her to go to a far-flung place, promised to support her pregnancy and her schooling with the condition that she doesn't marry my father. But my mother wasn't persuaded. She already had her mind made up. She was thinking of me in her womb. I would be without a father. If she is to give birth, she wanted me to have a complete family. She fought for their love and married at 18, gave birth at 19.

I will always be grateful to our God for He blessed me with a complete family. My salutation to my Pretty Mama for having to withstand everything despite all the odds. I am very proud to have you for a mother!

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!

Looking for an Alternative to My Physical Exercise

2010-05-08T16:21:00.000-07:00

Now that I have spent a few months doing physical exercise by playing Badminton, I have been thinking on the pros and cons of having my own fitness equipment.

That way I don't have to be rushing back home after work, hurrying with my Dinner just so that I can meet up with my Badminton appointment. Plus the fact that I have to pay for using the court at the Badminton hall.

My Boss has his own fitness stuff right at his home and I know that with his hectic work commitments, he finds that a real benefit.

The Terror Affliction For Teenagers

2010-05-08T10:29:00.000-07:00

I remember when I was a teen and it is that time when the very sight of the tiniest acne would mean sleepless nights.

Back then we did not have acne body wash. It was a bit of grandmother's know-how and a bit of luck, mostly time for the latter.

Of course, there were the "experts" whose experience mattered a lot for us teens. Frankly, now that I reminisce about it, it is so funny how as teens we were so gullible about the cures for acne that were handed to us.

There were some really bad cases that I have seen. After all the remedies that some of these teen girls and boys succumbed themselves, their facial complexion became worse.

The Dilemma Of Weight Watchers

2010-05-08T10:19:00.000-07:00

So the word is out!

Weight watchers have tried everything that is marketed out there. And that includes whether or not does lipozene work.

There will be those who will attest that it does help them to control their appetite. Others would say otherwise because they keep moving from pillar to post, trying out anything that they can lay their hands on.

The spectrum of weight reduction medication is so wide, it is difficult to ascertain which produces the desired results with the least physical and health side effects.

It is a matter of doing more comparative study on what is offered as well as seeking sound advice from a Medical Practitioner.

Happy 50th Birthday, Mama Dearie!

2010-04-30T17:44:00.000-07:00

You will never realize what it has taken me to get this Post published! Oh! I could rant and rant but this isn't the day for it - it's my mother's 50th Birthday. All I can say is that here I am at 00:40 am at a Cyber Cafe downtown making sure that this gets to Blogosphere's press ON TIME.

Oh! and Dear Mama, I couldn't explain to you why I had to get out of the house at this dreadful hour and Alas! I had to walk past many Cyber Cafes that were closed for business.

You've walked more than a mile many a times for me. It's my turn now. :) Take a rest, Mama Dearie, it's your Birthday today. Let me take care of everything. :-) (more post about this soon).

I love you, Mother Dearie! Words may oftentimes fail me, but No one can ever replace you in the family. Thanks for being the best mother that you can be!

May you have a blessed, fun birthday at the beach! :-)

It's beach party time!

It's reggae time! ;-)

The Importance of Vitamins Can Never Be Overstated

2010-04-29T10:09:00.000-07:00

Motherhood is generally espoused in the dreams of most young women. I guess my turn will come when I get married.

Having listened to a number of pregnant friends, I have grown to appreciate the risks that pregnancy is fraught with especially if the woman gets careless about her need for prenatal vitamins.

Over a related conversation, someone pointed out that women who gave birth in the years immediately after World War II showed how important it is that there is sufficient vitamins for the pregnant woman.

She went on to state that the Post World War II immediate generation were more prone to illnesses and showed a general lack of good health.

The Present Oppressive Hot Weather In The Philippines

2010-04-29T09:47:00.000-07:00

Since the beginning of 2010, the hot weather here in the Philippines has been immensely oppressive. Generally it isn't as hot as this but the effects of the seasonal effects of El Nino has exacerbated the stifling tropical heat.

Together with the oppressive heat we also have to bear up with the humidity. The Philippines being an archipelago of thousands of islands, those who live closer by the coastal areas bear the full brunt of the humidity.

One of the ways to offset some of this inconvenience is by installing not only air conditioners but also an effective dehumidifier.

Unfortunately, as the majority of the populace is not wealthy, a dehumidifier is not affordable. Nonetheless, it is a solution that is worth saving for a purchase.

Is the Worst Over For Me?

2010-04-25T08:21:00.000-07:00

The past week was a gruelling one, not to mention gross. Yours truly being down and sick for a week but still able to report for work was a little too much. Yet, I was able to handle it well.

I can't let the past week's main event pass without me recounting them.

It was the middle of the week when a certain animal named Janice Halim Negrosa a.k.a ZOO loitered around the blogosphere and wrought havoc to our once peaceful community by defaming a very good friend of mine, Twerlyn and her innocent daughter. Not only were the mother and daughter in tandem attacked by this irresponsible blogger with her below the belt comments, she also attacked other bloggers who stood up to defend Twerlyn. It included yours truly.

I wasn't even a participant to the comment thread because at the time, there was outage here. I can not even get myself to stand up because I was still feeling weak. I was informed via Mobile YM that the filthy-mouthed animal was badmouthing me. I was a bit shocked! Why the hell would she drag my name in her self-boasting and blog-trashing ways? I wasn't there to defend myself and I don't see it necessary because her issues were without rationale and proved her shallowness.

In all honesty, I can't recall having acquainted myself with that freak. And I would never want to associate myself with the likes of her. I was informed that some great friends of her were feeding her with twisted information about me. I am flattered. Am I that famous? LOL! I was able to identify one of her informants. That is a different issue though that I will have to deal with soon. SHE will have to wait.

The heart of the matter was that this stinking animal went overboard with her commenting attitude. Well, she doesn't have an attitude at all. From her manner of speaking, she has no breeding and definitely a person with no class and etiquette.

It is very unfortunate that a person coming from my own nationality, projected herself to be smart but alas! it smeared her own repute as well as projected an unforgiving impression about Filipinos through her venomous mouth and stinking attitude.

I am a person who speaks my mind with tact and on several occasions have expressed my rants and angst about controversial issues. If I have pi$$ed off some of the readers by my manner of writing, I can't help it because it was my way of thinking. I don't pretend. I am what I am and I write what I think.

This has been my love blog for three years. I love to talk about love here and not hatred. I usually publish articles here relating my daily experiences with my family, work and my journey to forever. If these people feel that whatever is written here is subject for careful scrutiny which they could take against me, do so as you please.

RESPECT is a virtue that I have always adhered to. Yet, this incident I can not let to pass.

Therefore, YOU, Janice Halim Negrosa, GET LOST! You should go back to your place where you truly belong. The zoo is your rightful place and not the blogosphere.

Read the evidences:

P.S

The insecure, dumb asses, ZOO et. al can't get enough of me. They have been spreading the word that I have a very good command of the language because my Prince is editing my work before I hit the publish button. Now that surely made me laugh! I AM FLATTERED. I didn't know I write that good English, LOL! Sure you would get more insecure when you get to hear me speak :-)

When we talk and put the cart before the horse

2010-04-24T09:01:00.000-07:00

It was about a month ago when my family began talking about how important it is that the family should be sufficiently insured for the unthinkable. My brother even mentioned about our neighbor who already has the entire family securely insured for medical and hospitalization.

As we discussed the matter, my Mom asked if any of us knew what would be the life insurance quote. We stared at one another and each of us did not have a clue.

Mom then added further by advising us not to put the cart before the horse. How could we discuss lengthily without even knowing the quote for insurance. She was absolutely correct.

The Face, Oh! How So Precious

2010-04-20T16:29:00.000-07:00

Face care is not anymore the realm of women. It used to be from time immemorial but today even men share with the same passion about their face appearance.

For instance, I have seen a few of my male teen nephews whose faces are layered with acne cream. What is even more surprising to me is that these male nephews take greater lengths than their sisters about their face care.

Acne peril is the name of their concern and they sure know that acnepril is the best cure for their inconvenience.

Feeling Sick And Wishing For A Fast Recovery

2010-04-19T08:01:00.000-07:00

Being down with flu is something that one doesn't want to wish for. I have been sick since Friday night and on Sunday, I forced myself to get up as early as 3:30 AM to serve my obligations at church. When I got home, I lost all my energy.

I have been more than under the weather till now. It gets really tough to follow through with my blog chores.

Late afternoon, I joined my Mama Dearie to have a relaxing and soothing massage. It did help me to feel reinvigorated but not enough for me to report for work today as I have no choice and cannot take a day's leave of absence.

Anyhow, I was able to survive another day and I hope I will be able to hurdle yet another day tomorrow ;-)

I just would like to mention that the excitement over Lainy's Musings 2nd Blogoversary Celebration has just begun as the prelude to its main celebration on April 26th kicked off with the contest: Why Did the Baby React?

As of this writing, there are a total of 11 contestants since the contest post was published at 11am today. I look forward for the pouring in of more entries because the main event to the celebration is fast approaching.

Indeed, it is a true celebration of bloggers for Lainy's Musings and I can't help but get more excited each day.

Do stand by for more and please be there on April 26, 2010 for the main event.

See yah!

DAVID FUNK

How About "killing" Two Birds With One Stone?

2010-04-18T20:43:00.000-07:00

Yes, that is the crux of most of problems when there is just one too many occurring simultaneously. How does not handle it would mean a great savings both for money and time.

Similarly to dye while you shampoo your hair, I have read about another two-in-one product that is appealing. It is a hair growth shampoo.

Doesn't that sound really neat? It means while keeping the sheen in one's hair, one can also take remedial action to stimulate hair growth.

For those who suffer hair today; gone tomorrow, this is surely something that is attractive.

How To Have My Cake And Eat It?

2010-04-17T20:50:00.000-07:00

I have been at it again. It has been an eating binge due to all the ceremonies and birthday parties that I have been attending.

This has taken a visible toll at my waistline. Ugggh! Though I am not yet bursting at my seams but it surely will arrive at that stage if this eating binge goes unchecked. But then again, how to keep it in check when what is laid out is so yummy.

I guess I will have to resort to nuphedragen to keep this matter in check.

Now, who was it who said that I can't have the cake and eat it? LOL!

There's No Equation For Suffering

2010-04-10T06:03:00.000-07:00

It was last night when my blogging hours was disrupted because I had to bring my brother, JS, Kuerdas Band Major, to the nearest hospital. The family wasn't aware that he has been suffering some kind of pain for days. He has been self-medicating his Urinary Tract Infection (UTI) but last night, he couldn't anymore bear the pain.

Since my mother was out of town, she instructed me via SMS to assist my brother for admittance at the hospital. Without delay, we went to the hospital where he was immediately brought to the Emergency Room (ER) for IV and other initial check-ups by the resident physician.

Only ten minutes had passed since my brother was being checked, when another patient was rushed to the ER. He was covered all over with blood. Seeing the scenario for the first time in my entire life sent some shivers through my spine. I was terrified! I learned that he was shot on the head twice and the bullets went right through. Two parts of his brain was greatly damaged. I can hear the attending physician speaking with the patient's wife telling her that her husband needs to undergo CT Scan. The wife was sobbing hard and was holding the hand of her husband. The doctor mentioned about down payment and simultaneously called up a neuro-surgeon as he gave details about the patient's condition. The attending physician then informed the wife of her husband's chances for survival- 60-40. The wife was saying they come from a poor family and that it will be very difficult for them to pay for the needs of his husband at the hospital. The doctor also informed her of the adverse possibilities should the operation be successful. It would mean memory loss and her husband could be a total invalid for life.

I feel for this victim's family. Had I been in that woman's shoes, I couldn't have survived the trauma.

I informed my mother via SMS of what had just transpired at the ER. She reminded me to keep my composure and to find my bearings because it might cause a spike to my blood pressure. Medical examination for my brother resumed after the gun-shot victim was brought to the ICU. After my brother had completed his initial once-over he was sent to the private room.

Today we had the lab test results. It reported that Kidney problems were ruled out but his sugar level proved to be higher than permissible. Being a diabetic suspect, he was referred to an endocrinologist to keep his blood sugar under control.

My brother's realizations came only now when he's at the worst of situations. All reminders for him to keep watch of his diet and to do exercises kept ringing at his ears. He now promises to come along with me when I do brisk walking, jogging and my badminton sessions. And now how he detests white rice, LOL!

Well, I hope he could be as determined as I am. He simply has no choice but to look after his own health because no one can do that for him.

A L L Y!

Meeting with old friends brings back memories

2010-04-09T08:03:00.000-07:00

It was indeed nice that I met one of my old time friend from High School. We spent a few interesting hours at a Cafe reminiscing about the yesteryears.

Part of our conversation touched on what each of us were doing at the present time for a living, love life and things that most women would converse. When it came to her job she pulled up her handbag and handed me her business card.

That was really cool. Now, I must get something similar like that for my own use too but first I need to know where business card printing is done in my town.

Once I have my business card, it will help people whom I meet to remember my contact details and keep in touch through the years ahead.

To my Dearest Cousin Ally: Happy Birthday!

2010-04-07T06:06:00.000-07:00

It was recently that I mentioned to a friend, "How time flies!" and here I am like it is with a blink of my eye and it is time to celebrate and wish my dearest cousin Ally, my heartfelt wishes for blue skies and all things nice on her 27th. Birthday.

Ally and I are first cousins. Both our mothers are sisters. She is one cousin whom I am proud of because she has never neglected her mother and siblings. A true daughter and pride of the Filipino nationality.

She's someone who speaks out her mind bluntly and in her own ways have proven how a good daughter she is no matter how much she and her Mom differed in a lot of things.

She is a person who is very talented. Not only can she bring you to wonderland when you hear her melodious voice. She plays the guitar really well and other musical instruments, too.

Here's to you My Cousin Dearie:

May your days be filled with Happiness, Good Health and Peace!

HAVE A BLESSED BIRTHDAY!

P.S.

In case you do not know, Ally is a die-hard blogger too. Hahaha! She manages two Blogs, namely:

In The Eyes Of The Beholder
I'm Walking On Sunshine

CREDITS:

Thank you, Windy for doing the beautiful birthday card for the celebrant :-)

W I N D Y!

First commenter for this post...

My Wish

2010-04-06T14:17:00.000-07:00

To say that I am excited is an understatement. But now is not the right time as of yet to reveal the reason for such an emotion. I don't wanna speak too soon.

I just would like to express my feelings at this very moment. It has been gnawing at me for quite some time now.

It is my wish that one day I will have an opportunity to travel outside of the country. I have been born and bred here in the Philippines but I would love to see some other places with different cultural backgrounds and orientation.

Please don't get me wrong. I love my own county. In fact, I was able to appreciate some of the many tourist attractions here. But it would have been a lot better if my appreciation of the things around me would cover not only for my own country but for countries abroad as well.

Anyways, should I be given a rare chance to travel, I won't have second thoughts in purchasing Jack Georges luggage. I have heard of its quality and its proven to be best for travelling wherever in the world.

Did It One More Time!

2010-04-03T06:38:00.000-07:00

I am no stage performer. Performing on stage isn't my cup of tea. Though when I was still a kid, my mother would drag me along to every singing contest she was aware of - radio stations, plaza, etc, hahahahaha!

You see, she's a frustrated singer :-) I would often laugh every time I reminisce those moments. And I would laugh harder thinking of the prizes I've got- Pop Rice, candies and the like, LOL!

My parents, especially my mother, was very patient in training me and my two younger siblings when it deals with facing people and therefore performing on stage. She taught me a lot of declamation pieces and poems so when a performer is needed in school, I can be easily tapped. I did so on many occasions. That was when I was still at grade school. They were also very supportive of my brothers and encouraged them a lot when it dealt with singing. It's no wonder Kuerdas Band was established.

When I was growing up, my confidence was on its low. I got a little insecure and it gradually developed stage fright. Though I can express myself really well in writing and speaking, I haven't performed in front of a crowd.

But when I started to make a living at the age of 20, I was forced to develop my self-esteem because my first job demanded it. We had to conduct various Trainings and it required me to face an audience and to speak to people from all walks of life.

At this present time, it also repeats with my job. I would often be interviewed on TV or over the radio with regards to election matters. The Boss would sometimes delegate me to represent him on press conferences and to do some "emceeing" tasks.

Over time, I just developed that ample amount of confidence to be on stage.

But singing is something different, LOL! So it is a little way out of my comfort zone when I go up on stage and render not one but three (3) songs, hahahahaha! This happened when my mother's friend had his birthday treat after our badminton session the other night. Each member of the family wasn't spared though. Each of us was able to perform.

Do take a look at some proofs:

While preparing to leave for the badminton session...

It's game time!

Pose for the camera!

IT'S SHOW TIME:

Jay Son, Kuerdas Band Major trying hard to be a balladeer, LOL!

It's my turn. hehehe!

That's Pretty Mama!

My youngest brother, Kuerdas Lead Vocals

DAVID FUNK

Those Were the Days

2010-04-02T03:11:00.000-07:00

As I was making my way home from work the other day, I noticed a large group of High School students walking along the busy main street in town. Most of them were laughing and having fun with each other, somewhat oblivious that one of them could get hurt along a busy street.

Watching them made me reminisce when I was at their age. How eager I was like most of my other classmates as well, to finish High School and get quickly find a job.

School life was all the dreadful homework and preparation for examinations. We'd look at the working adults and they seemed to have so much freedom to do what they liked and they had money buy what they wanted.

Now that I am working, it turns out to be the other way around. I miss my school days.

Ahhh! those were the days.

Getting the Better of the Outages

2010-03-30T04:57:00.000-07:00

I just got home from grocery shopping on Sunday night when the power outage struck us again. With the temperature rising, my brother suggested for us to go out and unwind instead of staying just at home and staring at the ceiling. Since I was tired from the grocery shopping I didn't suggest to play badminton. He said we just have to watch his girlfriend perform since she had a gig that night.

My brothers' GF, Heart Gel, performing on-stage with one of the jammers.

So off we went there and simply had a good time.

With my brother, Jay Son, Kuerdas Band Major.

Whatta! Whatta! ;-)

But since it was already a little late aside from the fact that it was a Sunday, there weren't too many people. They egged me on to come up on stage and sing even just one song, LOL! Without further prodding, I went up the stage and grabbed the microphone, hahahahaha! I had the guts because the customers left already and we were the only ones around, LOL!

Ehem!

Naks!

These things happen when we don't allow the outages get the better of us, LOL!

R E C E L

Pay And Pay But Are You Getting A Better Deal?

2010-03-29T05:09:00.000-07:00

We live in a world that is money from the moment we awake each day. You may not realize it but the moment your grab your toothpaste and squeeze the tube, you're closer to having to buy a replacement by a few cents. The moment you turn on your tap, up runs the water meter bill and that's going to cost you another few more cents, too.

So it is a payout day, everyday. Even for your car. It means paying. Ever wondered if there are wiser ways to pay for what we do daily? Take for example, do we really know if we had the best deal without checking with the carinsurancelist when the time arrives for the car insurance?

Give this a thought because it could mean enjoying a much better deal. I sure would want a better deal when it's my money.

Happy Birthday, Recel!

2010-03-27T00:37:00.000-07:00

Today marks the birthday celebration of a wonderful blogpal, Recel, who blogs from My Written xPressions and Rare Ordinary Thoughts. I have been anticipating eagerly for this day as this is a rare occasion in her life where God has manifested once more His loving Grace by bestowing on her another year of life, good health, a beautiful family, faith, and everlasting love.

With the 6-hour outage disrupting my blogging hours, I had to wait for the power to resume at 1 AM. I've immediately requested Windy to do an animated birthday card and he was able to come up with this beautiful image in a matter of 30 minutes.

From me and Windy, we wish you the best of everything that life here on earth may offer, Sis. More than all, may you continue to be a blessing to others as you have been with us.

Have a blessed birthday!

R E C E L

So You Are Interested to Insure Yourself, What's Next?

2010-03-26T00:16:00.000-07:00

I know what it is like when you are seriously contemplating signing up for an Insurance Policy to protect you. There are so many different kinds of Insurance options out there . Some of these Insurance doubles up as an Investment policy as well. So, what do you do?

Well, obviously you need to get to the bottom line first. You need to have the life insurance quotes first before you decide which one will fit your budget.

There are several ways to get that information. You could walk in to an Insurance Company as ask, you could make an appointment with an Insurance Agent to explain it to you in person or you avail of the services found on the Internet.

I am sure that any of these three options will meet your need to know before you make that worthy leap.

Happy Birthday, Baby Ewoks!

2010-03-20T07:51:00.000-07:00

Today marks the first birthday of our adorable and cute baby, Ewoks.

Nine months ago I officially welcomed Ewoks as the family's baby when I wrote about him HERE.

He looked like this when he was just 3-month old:

And how worried my Pretty Mama was when I wrote about Tears for Fears. She has cried countless times when she thought she lost Baby Ewoks.

Prior to Ewoks' celebration of birth, my mother has huge plans for him. She wants a big party for our baby. But since everyone were busy, it wasn't possible for us to prepare things beforehand.

So we had to make do with whatever was laid on the table. Mama Dearie bought a small cake and invited Ewoks' friends and playmates in the neighborhood ;-). They were Hangal, Tropix, Onyok, Little Chin-Chin, Tsam- Tsam, Pringy, Teddy, Ratty, Jer-Jer, etc

They were all going gaga when I got home from work. All of Ewoks' visitors were present. Of course, I had to be present for the simple celebration, too. My cousin Ally, who went back home to Manila today, missed the celebration though. However, she was able to greet Ewoks via her phone :-)

To you Ewoks, happy birthday and thank you for making our home's atmosphere vibrant and for always plastering a smile on our faces :-)

W I N D Y

Seek for Justice When It Is There

2010-03-18T22:26:00.000-07:00

One of the most dreadful things to come face to face with is when a person is diagnosed positive with a Cancer growth.

Early detection gives the patient a chance for a full recovery after surgical correction and the needed medicines.

There are cancer-forming agents that advances in Science and the Industry has wrought on mankind. Mesothelioma is one of these. It is caused by asbestos.

Not only does the victim need medical attention, a mesothelioma lawyer should be engaged so legal compensation can be sought against the negligent employer.

You should know your legal right and seek justice.

Lost In a Car Park

2010-03-18T22:13:00.000-07:00

Have you ever lost your way in the basement car park at those gigantic malls? I have experienced that with a friend.

Well, first there has been several occasions when I could not recall at which section and on which basement level my friend had his car parked. Then after jogging our memory and finally heaving a sigh of relief, the worst is not yet over.

Following the exit signs could also mean working one's way out like in a maze. We have had many instances where we made all the left turns and right turns but it brought us back to the same spot where we first began.

If we are lucky, we follow some other car that is leaving and that definitely leads us out of the car park.

I Must Plan for a Vacation

2010-03-18T22:01:00.000-07:00

All work and no play makes Jill a dull girl. Amen! to that.

The pace of work has become more frenetic as we prepare for the National Vote Day in my country. Together with my Office colleagues, we have to attend mandatory training for our preparation.

I am just swept with the demands of the changes in venues and conferences. It is time that I think about a vacation once all this is past and done with. Any kind of vacation will do, Outer Banks vacations or just laze by the beach.

I am looking forward to this vacation break.

Crazy, Busy Week Ahead!

2010-03-18T14:11:00.000-07:00

A couple of busy weeks behind me, and so many more weeks ahead.

Meanwhile, another grueling and taxing week awaits ahead of me. The Training of BEI's (Board of Election Inspectors) shall resume today, March 19, 2010 and will end on March 26, 2010. We were once again booked at one hotel here in the City. Though the luxury of the various amenities is available at the hotel, I can't in any way lured by it. Nothing can still beat the comfort of my own room.

I am a person who just loves to be at home and I feel very uncomfortable being away from home. I have managed to sleep at the hotel last week but mind you! I still go home every night and still was able to see my family and our Baby Ewoks who is turning one (1) tomorrow :-)

Anyways, there's definitely no time for me to relax. To relax and unwind is what I want more and more as time goes on. As tired as I am right now, I wonder how much longer I can keep up with this crazy schedule. But I don't see myself quitting as of yet :-)

The toxic week ahead means I will be away from my blogs more often. Thank God there's the ever brilliant Windy who shall keep you entertained at my other blog, Lainy's Musings, while I am away.

Please bear with me and I promise to keep you all posted and interact with you at the blogs once my time permits me.

R E C E L

The Modern Women

2010-03-17T16:15:00.000-07:00

It's the status quo thing nowadays with women. They all want to be seen as women-on-the-go. Busy, important, appointments and totally in control of time and others around at their beck and call.

They're on the fast lane. Not necessarily fast women if you think that I am alluding to that. Fast as in quick this and quick that. Almost everything that they do during their waking hours must be synchronized.

Yeah, even when it comes to their meals. No delays. Or their weight control it must be quick trim. No wait and see. Everything must fall in place because they're about to rise up and be on the go in 2 nano seconds from now.

Chiao!

It's not ladies first this time

2010-03-17T10:55:00.000-07:00

Is the romance in your relationship on the wane?

Talk about romance and there'd not be enough space in the entire Blogosphere to fill all of it. But the fact remains that every couple goes through that jaded phase at least once during their life time.

The sparks are seemingly not illuminating their fulfillment. Something needs to be done to help these couples before their relationship becomes irrepairable. It needs a honest maximum effort to reignite the splendor of their romance.

Men first in this matter. You need to maxoderm your love life. Don't wait for your lady to make that move before you.

Go for it mannnn!

In Absentia

2010-03-14T05:52:00.000-07:00

I can't believe I was able to accomplish all the things I need to do the past couple of days. The seminars here and there and the voluminous paper work to meet the deadlines made me want to run for the hills, LOL!

You see, I wasn't home for almost a week. We were housed at one hotel for our live-in GI and PCOS Training for the Board of Election Inspectors (BEIs). The BEIs are the public school teachers who were deputized by the COMELEC to handle the computerized voting come May 10, 2010.

I still go home though to change and prepare for my badminton game, check on my blogs, and publish some posts. I must admit I was in absentia for I failed to interact with my fave blogs because the outages here really sucks! It's simply impossible to accomplish everything with a 8-hour power failure every day.

I was able to manage my late night badminton workout inspite of it all. I don't know where I got all the zest and energy. I just had to go out and play to relieve myself from all the stress and pressures that work has brought me.

I need to mention that my cousin, Ally of In the Eyes of the Beholder just arrived for her 10-day vacation. Just too bad that we can't hang around that often as we used to do in the past because of my work. I have invited her out to play together with the mother and daughter tandem, Star and Lollii though during one of our badminton sessions:

Bloggers in Action!

Star, Lollii, Lainy and Ally

We were also able to have a tete-a-tete at one coffee shop here when I had my break at the seminar.

And yes!

Ally sure had a great time when we were able to hang around at the Kuerdas gig after the badminton game where Ally once more took center stage ;-)

On our way back to the hotel after watching the Kuerdas show

R E C E L

Roll over Aunt !

2010-03-13T04:06:00.000-08:00

If ever there was someone that I could literally roll off the bed, that would be one of my aunts. You can't imagine how rotund she is.

I have been reminding her whenever we meet that she has to do something serious about keeping her over-blossomed weight in check or she might explode. She simply does not wish to hear anything about weight loss formula and I not only feel sorry for her but for her husband and their car too.

No joking about the car thing. With so much overload from my aunt, one of these days, their car's suspension might give at the most critical time and it could cause them serious injuries from a bad car accident.

Oh well! I hope she comes to her senses before anything worse happens.

Oh! the excruciating head pains I suffer

2010-03-10T02:40:00.000-08:00

It has been several years that I have been having recurring severe head pains. Whenever it happens I have to reach out for the general over-the-counter medications that are sold at the Shops here.

There is little relief with these general medications. When the head pains become so intense, I ask my brother to give my head and back a massage but that is not the solution too.

And NO! I am not speaking about PMS.

Recently, a friend pointed me to try out best migraine treatments. It has reached a point where I dread the onset of my head pains so much I would try out anything.

Have we thought about foot care?

2010-03-10T02:30:00.000-08:00

Someone remarked to me that most people fail to pay attention the the care of their feet. That remark caught me by surprise.

"Am I guilty of uncaring for my feet?" I asked myself. Perhaps there is some truth in that remark because she explained that the feet bears the weight of the human body during most of its waking hours.

She went on to explain that most people try to cut corners and buy shoes that either fail to fit their feet comfortably or shoes that do not provide a comfortable wear for their feet. I think she has a valid point.

Speaking of shoes, I am going to need a new pair soon. I was thinking about Christian Louboutin.

Their designs are impeccable and there's a good selection to chose from.

A Stroll in the Park

2010-03-09T20:21:00.000-08:00

Have you ever done a stroll in the park? It is a nice way to relax, take a fresh breath of air and watch a bit of everything that helps one to reinvigorate.

I have often passed the park on a vehicle but I have never allowed myself the time and space to take a stroll there until a week ago.

It was great to see children with their parents or guardians and couples seated together. There were health conscious adults doing their jogging rounds. In the playground, I could see toddlers having fun and getting acquainted. This made the park look like a baby jogger city, so to speak.

On my way back home after that stroll, I said to myself that I should do this more often. It's really fun and relaxing to be there

I Beg Your Pardon

2010-03-07T13:47:00.001-08:00

I am still here. Somehow, I am too happy to be infront of the PC once more after a taxing and grueling days at work since Friday. My sked is even tougher today, Sunday. My usual blogging routine which is spent solely for Sundays was spoiled. Yes, I still have to report for work on a Sunday. My daily routine won't be as normal as it is before until the election day is over.

We are currently conducting a training for the General Instructions and PCOS operation for the Board of Election Inspectors (BEI's) who shall be the COMELEC's frontliners come May 10, 2010.

The rotational outages down here made things even more difficult for me. My usual blogging activities were disrupted. I have missed going through my favorite blogs and interacting with them. I will try to keep up though when things get normal and better.

The recent activities at work made it very impossible for me to do all things at the same time. It's a good thing that quite a number of drafts were prepared in my other Blog, Lainy's Musings. All I need to do is hit the publish button.

For now, I ask for your understanding and patience.

Thank you.

DAVID FUNK

Being Under the Weather

2010-03-04T14:33:00.000-08:00

It was a week ago when I was barking like Ewoks. The dry cough was just too much to bear. But I still had to report for work because our schedule was rather hectic. I felt a lot better after seven days though I still don't have my voice back. It still sounds hoarse from too much coughing. My mother was also suffering from the same ordeal. She had to file a leave of absence and had to take antibiotics as advised by her physician.

I am not sure if it's the weather or it's my immune system with a low resistance to ailments. I was up and about as early as 4am for our 5:30 am devotional prayers since Friday, Feb 26 until Mar 5. This is in preparation for our Holy Supper at Church. I also am working under pressure. On Wednesday, I had this terrible cold and fever. I didn't report for work yesterday. I stayed home and took a good rest.

But what the heck!

The frequent outages made me feel I am going to get worse! I couldn't tolerate the heat! I couldn't sleep! I felt I truly am under severe distress! Is this hell on earth?

I have no choice but to report back to work today. Another long and stressful day ahead of me. I just hope it will go smoothly. I have to take heed of the following to help me feel a lot better:

Working Under Pressure With Grace

2010-03-03T13:50:00.000-08:00

My recent hectic schedule made it very impossible for me to do everything as I wish offline and online.

My offline routines like playing badminton and just taking a good nap at noon time were the things I would sorely miss doing. I even planned of doing some jogs in the morning but can't seem to accomplish this task.

A lot of my online tasks will be temporarily relegated to the sidelines. Sure I would miss hopping. and commenting on my fave blogs. Not to mention that I couldn't do phentermine reviews as of yet. This is the one thing that I should get done the soonest possible time.

My hands are full in the coming weeks or so. I hope I could get to accomplish everything with grace :-)

Health Is Wealth

2010-03-02T13:27:00.000-08:00

Of course it is!

It is pretty sad that it took me some health blows before finally realizing it. Taking good care of my health is something that I haven't prioritized because of my crazy work schedules. And I must admit, accomplishing my online chores took its toll on me. I am aware these are lame excuses but I have learned my lesson hard.

I have learned to adopt preventive measures when it comes to my health issues. Thus, when I've heard of the colon cleansing food, I didn't think twice in asking for its benefits. I have every desire to purchase the product once I know it is available here in our place.

One good news is that, my battle with hypertension is beginning to get better results. I am all fired up in winning the battle and I am so determined to do just that!

Thank You, Facebook!

2010-03-01T03:42:00.000-08:00

We knew each other since we were 12 years old. We became good friends and real buddies for more than a decade. Everything seemed to have been forgotten because of one petty and trivial misunderstanding. It drifted us apart. Two years had past and I really thought I had to forget about the beautiful friendship that we once had.

I was on the verge of hopelessness.

Little did I know that while some bloggers parted ways through Facebook of late, my case is the exact opposite. My friend and I were able to patch things up through Facebook. Apologies were asked and accepted. We were able to revive the friendship that we once shared for many years.

Thanks to the social networking site such as Facebook. It did not only connect me to long lost friends, it has also kept me grounded. Hatred and pride must never reside in one's heart.

R E C E L

Mother Knows Best

2010-02-28T13:12:00.000-08:00

My mother and I agree on a lot of things. But most times, we find some stuffs we don't agree on. Whenever I disagree with her, it doesn't mean I don't trust and respect her wisdom. Mother still knows best.

When it comes to skin care, I have no reasons to argue with her, LOL! She believes that accutane is the best treatment for acnes. I didn't one bit doubted her.

Not too many children are blessed with a cool and a groovy mom. Since my brothers are performers, she's one of the best stage mothers around! She doesn't want to miss any of the Kuerdas shows. She is an all-supportive mom!

I am not an outgoing type of person. I mostly prefer to stay home than hang around everywhere. But being the stage mother that she is, I have learned to enjoy going out whenever my brothers perform.

Well, each mothers have their unique characteristics. They are loved and sometimes hated for what they are. But truly, mothers are admired for their nurturing and caring nature.

And She's My Mother!

2010-02-27T12:54:00.000-08:00

My mother is a little vain. She is the kind of person who takes good care of her physical attributes very well. She can not go out of the house not fully made up. And how she hates it when she gets adult acne! She feels she's long done with it since she got too many acne scars when she was younger. Most of the people actually mistake us as siblings. And they would find it amazing to know that she is actually my mother.

In a few months, she will be celebrating her 50th birthday. How time flies so quick! She originally planned of having a big party for her friends but later changed her mind. She doesn't want to spend her money on parties. She wants to invest it to something long lasting instead.

Would You Want a Glass of Water or Coke?

2010-02-24T14:12:00.000-08:00

I have learned the other night that our family friend, Ate, Nimfa, was confined at a hospital because of some kidney problems. We were worried. Then we all agreed in chorus that her drinking too much coke could be the culprit.

With Ate Nimfa

And how right we were!

Ate Nimfa is a person who thinks she would die without softdrinks (Coca Cola to be precise!). She drinks less water and would prefer bottles of coke.

Ate Nimfa's case is not rare. There are a lot of people who suffered from even worse complications.

This made me scan my mailbox for an email I had received some years ago (July 27, 2005).

Read on:

Coke or Water?

WATER

75% of Americans are chronically dehydrated. (Likely applies to half world population.)
In 37% of Americans, the thirst mechanism is so weak that it is often mistaken for hunger.
Even MILD dehydration will slow down one's metabolism as much as 3%.
One glass of water will shut down midnight hunger pangs for almost 100% of the dieters studied in a University of Washington study.
Lack of water, the #1 trigger of daytime fatigue.
Preliminary research indicates that 8-10 glasses of water a day could significantly ease back and joint pain for up to 80% of sufferers.
A mere 2% drop in body water can trigger fuzzy short-term memory, trouble with basic math, and difficulty focusing on the computer screen or on a printed page.
Drinking 5 glasses of water daily decreases the risk of colon cancer by 45%, plus it can slash the risk of breast cancer by 79%, and one is 50%less likely to develop bladder cancer.
Are you drinking the amount of water you should every day?

COKE

In many states (in the USA) the highway patrol carries two gallons of Coke in the trunk to remove blood from the highway after a car accident.
You can put a T-bone steak in a bowl of Coke and it will be gone in two days.
To clean a toilet: Pour a can of Coke into the toilet bowl and let the "real thing" sit for one hour, then flush clean. The citric acid in Coke removes stains from vitreous china.
To remove rust spots from chrome car bumpers: Rub the bumper with a rumpled-up piece of Reynolds Wrap aluminium foil dipped in Coke.
To clean corrosion from car battery terminals: Pour a can of Coke over the terminals to bubble away the corrosion.
To loosen a rusted bolt: Applying a cloth soaked in Coke to the rusted bolt for several minutes.
To bake a moist ham: Empty a can of Coke into the baking pan, wrap the ham in aluminium foil, and bake. Thirty minutes before the ham is finished, remove the foil, allowing the drippings to mix with the Coke for sumptuous brown gravy.
To remove grease from clothes: Empty a can of Coke into a load of greasy clothes, add detergent, and run through a regular cycle. The Coke will help loosen grease stains. It will also clean road haze from your windshield.
FOR YOUR INFORMATION:
The active ingredient in Coke is phosphoric acid. Its pH is 2.8. It will dissolve a nail in about four days. Phosphoric acid also leaches calcium from bones and is a major contributor to the rising increase in osteoporosis.
To carry coke syrup (the concentrate) the commercial truck must use the Hazardous Material place cards reserved for highly corrosive materials.
The distributors of carbonated sodas have been using it to clean the engines of their trucks for about 20 years!

Now the question is,

would YOU like a glass of water or coke?

NOTE: Coke here refers to ALL soda, not specifically Coca-Cola.

Grateful!

2010-02-23T14:39:00.000-08:00

When my father died almost 7 years ago, I was only 23 years old. I was working for a private entity back then. In tough times like death, one is confronted with financial difficulties especially if the family haven't secured any memorial plans and the like. The funeral cost in itself is thing to contend with.

It's a good thing that the former institution that I worked for comes together in moments like that. All employees are required to give a certain amount and that amount is converted into cash. That little amount was put together and was able to help us with a lot of our burial expenses.

I am just too glad that it was implemented in my previous employment.

Put On Hold

2010-02-20T14:26:00.000-08:00

Both my brothers are saving every single penny that they could get so that we could get to purchase the car that we all have been wanting for a long time now. Through their own initiatives, they were able to make that move without me knowing it not until my mother informed me that indeed they were both adamant to save dime.

The purchase is put on hold because I still have to prioritize some things and I couldn't add some more money to their savings. It will just be for the meantime though. I've asked them to ask around for available cars that would fit our budget and might as well ask for auto insurance quotes.

I hope this year everything will materialize and we could get to drive our own family car.

The Paradise Island Get-Away Part 3

2010-02-19T16:29:00.000-08:00

This is the last of three parts.

And you thought I am done with our Island get-away in December. But I've saved the best for last, hehe! If you've missed the two- part narration, they are HERE and HERE.

We've had our share of the kayaking experience. But there's one more thing I wasn't able to do aside from getting hold of the huge snake.

My brothers and their respective girlfriends went on to have their zipline experience. Before we've reached our destination, I was all set to do it. But when we finally reached the place, I've got cold feet. The warning written all over the place that people with health problems will be doing it at their own risks prompted me not to gamble myself.

So I simply contented myself looking at them from below and took some snapshots.

My brothers and their girlfriends had a blast zipping their way from one mountain to another.

And the hundred of photos captured during the 3-day escapade were enough proof to show that our family indeed had a blast.

As you can see, Baby Ewoks went with us during the entire duration of our escapade. However, we took the bus going to and from our destination. We did not encounter any problems until we reached Paradise Island. The personnel there informed us that no pets are allowed to ride the barge in going to the island. We almost can't believe it! We can't afford to leave our baby behind! But since it's the island's policy, we've got no choice but to abide by the rules.

For 12 hours, Ewoks was left in the care of the security personnel of the island. When we've finally returned, gosh! You can just imagine the look of glee on his face! He was all running and jumping his way with his masters! And he thought we had entirely abandoned him.

The story does not end there.

On our way home, we took a different bus company. We were all seated when the driver informed us that pets are not allowed on the bus. Gosh! Why are they doing this to our baby? They told us that some pets poo and pee at the bus that's why they issued a memorandum not to allow pets on their bus.

Poor Ewoks! If they only knew that he comes down to pee with us during the trip. He's properly trained and never gave us any headache.

We had no other recourse but to transfer. It is such a pity though that Ewoks had to go through all that.

Overall, the get-away was an event that all of us will surely treasure in our hearts. What matters most was that our family were able to gather together and simply had a good time.

Seasons for Different Reasons

2010-02-14T16:48:00.000-08:00

The North Pole is currently experiencing winter and I can see some places on the web covered up by snow. It must be so cold up there! Brrrrrrrrrrrr!

I wonder if they have electric blanket at home. Well, I still got to experience snow. Since the Philippines is a tropical country, it is the complete opposite of winter.

My Prince on the other hand tells me that Fall is under way in Sydney. His favorite season is spring while Mummy C loves autumn. We may all want different seasons for different reasons. For as long as calamities do not strike to wreck havoc into our lives, any season for me is alright ;-)

A Night to Remember

2010-02-14T07:33:00.000-08:00

I have learned last Thursday that the Entrecard account of my Boss who blogs from Bottom Lines was deleted from the EC system. The reason must be that his blog wasn't updated for quite a number of months. I am aware that a blog must be regularly updated to meet EC system's quality standards.

You see, with the onset of the May 10, 2010 Automated Elections, schedule at work was hectic more than ever. Things were a lot tougher. Being the City Election Officer at the same time the Acting Provincial Elections Supervisor, a lot of things are expected of him.

I remember one time when he was all set in updating his blog at noon break. Then there came a bunch of people who needed to talk with him about election matters. The day goes on and on like that. It's never-ending. He got a handful of tasks to accomplish in a day that updating his blog is not anymore a priority.

Things were even tougher when the Boss got promoted in January. I am personally happy for him. So yours truly and Star, the ever sexy and reliant secretary of the Boss, thought of something to surprise him.

It happened on Friday night where all his personnel were gathered together over dinner to celebrate his promotion. He wasn't aware we were up to something. He was a little doubtful though when we started taking photos of him and we also took some poses together with him and the rest of the staff.

I am sincerely happy for what the Boss has achieved. He has worked his way up and he truly deserves all the accolades.

Congratulations Sir!

Sunday is Family Day

2010-02-06T23:44:00.000-08:00

When we were still little kiddos, my entire family would usually spend time together every Sundays. Going to church together and dining out thereafter is the usual practice of the family.

But when we were growing up, we had, in a way, deviated from the usual family practices. The usual family bonding during weekends were somehow taken for granted and were usually spent with friends and some other activities.

I've missed those times when our entire family would go out together, watch a movie and just simply dine out. My Prince would often encourage me to spend my time with them as often as I possibly could. It was then when I realized the importance of family bondings and togetherness. It was still there alright but it wasn't anymore the family's priority because each of us have different schedules and activities.

But I wanted us to restore the family's tradition. Despite our busy schedules, I've made it known to everyone in the family that they are expected to be present on a certain day where we have to spend time together.

Today was one of the remarkable moment where we were once again bonded and simply just had a good time. There was no special occasion to celebrate. We also had the opportunity to be with some relatives who took the time to visit us. Together with us were Heart Gel, my brother's gf and my niece (daughter of my cousin), whom I am going to send to school come opening of classes this coming June.

After having a feast on the delicious and sumptuous meals at one famous steak house, we proceeded to play BEDminton.

Specialty of the House:

Baby Back Ribs-

Ohhh! I meant BADminton, LOL!

Here are some proofs of today's activities:

At lunchtime: (DO SCROLL DOWN FOR MORE PHOTOS)

Giving Baby Ewoks a BIG hug before leaving the house...
Unsa man ang lami???!

Pose for the camera!

During our Badminton game: (DO SCROLL DOWN FOR MORE PHOTOS)

After all the things that's been said and done about today's events, I'd like to make a statement. Yes, I am a sister, a daughter, a friend and many more things. But above all these, I am proud to be doing one of my greatest past time.

Certainly, blogging has brought me tremendous joy and fulfillment.

Yes!

I am proud to be a blogger... and I have the luxury of time doing my blogging chores only on Sundays ;-)

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Wrinkles No More

2010-02-05T15:18:00.000-08:00

Yes!

I have found the best eye wrinkle cream! Without a shadow of doubt, I can speak about it with confidence. I have these laugh lines all over my face specifically in the area nearest the eyes. Out of desperation, I had to exert much time and effort searching for the best and the safest one for me.

And certainly, my efforts paid off. Now, I can smile more often without having to worry about wrinkles around my eyes. That's talking about aging gracefully.

Welcome Back to the Blogosphere, Recel!

2010-02-03T14:37:00.000-08:00

This post is to officially welcome the return of a great blogging comrade. Recel who blogs from My Written xPressions and Rare Ordinary Thoughts, left the US to visit her homeland Philippines sometime in October 2009. She took a 3-month blogging hiatus while on vacation. She has other things in mind, too when she left Uncle Sam but some plans didn't materialized as originally planned. I am awaiting for her to share her version of the story at her blogs ;-) She is actually a nurse-wanna-be. But a full-time homemaker she is too to her daughter and husband and mind you, she does it perfectly well.

Recel is an epitome of a blogger who blogs from the heart and who blogs for self-expression. She is also devoted in exalting the name and great deeds of the Lord across her blogs. She loves going through different blogs and makes her presence felt by commenting.

Recel coveted the second top spot for Lainy's Hottest Blogoversary Writing Competition: A Bloggers Celebration last year. Her masterpiece was declared second place after getting the nod of the three judges as well as the majority of readers at the Poll. You can see the declaration of winners HERE. To have a glimpse of her contest entry, you can click HERE.

Friends, help me in welcoming back a great person rolled into one- blogger, mother, wife, friend, servant of God, daughter, sister, etc....

Welcome back, Recel!

Genetically Acquired?

2010-02-02T05:33:00.000-08:00

A lot of people are suffering from hemorrhoids. Some aren't too open to admit it but some were very blunt to say they have been applying hemorrhoidal cream to feel comfortable.

Well, having hemmorhoids is really no big deal. Undergoing the hemorrhoidal treatment will make one to feel at ease and will help pain not to bother the patients again.

I am just wondering though how it is acquired. Is it genetic?

Beautiful Cards from Sydney, Australia With Love

2010-01-31T04:57:00.000-08:00

After revealing the anniversary presents from My Guapo Prince a few days back, I can't help but show off the cards I've got from him and Mummy C. I was truly touched reading the beautiful messages written on the cards.

To My Beautiful Lainy,

Well done to us! 3 years we have made it and many more to come!
I am lucky cuz I have the best Mahal in the world!
Looking forward to seeing you this year.

MAHAL NA MAHAL KITA ALWAYS!

Your Prince,
Scotty

I must admit I've had erratic heartbeats while reading the card. For awhile there, it felt like I was in heaven. My Prince alone can give me such happiness and a pernicious sense of completeness. It is such a beautiful feeling knowing that the man I love truly accepts me for the person that I am despite the barriers.

What is even more remarkable is that Mummy C has that certain level of fondness for me as his son's girlfriend. My Prince would often tell me that Mummy C likes me for being genuine :-) Now what can I say? I almost couldn't believe it! Mummy C's approval of me meant so much to me more than anything else!

I owe Mummy a lot! If not for her, I wouldn't have a wonderful man to love. I am sincerely all hats-off to her for raising such an admirable son.

This card from Mummy C reads and I quote:

Ellaine,

Special is a word that best describes you...
Special is a word that is used to describe something one-of-a-kind,
like a hug or a sunset or a person who spreads love with a smile or kind gesture.
Special describes people who act from the heart and keep in mind the hearts of others.
Special applies to something that is admired and precious and can never be replaced.
Special is the word that best describes YOU!

Wishing you every happiness for 2010.

Lots of Love, Kisses and Cuddles,
Mummy

P.S.

Hope you like the necklace, fridge magnets, and make-up bag.

Love,
Mummy

You see how sweet Mummy C is? :-)

I am grateful to God Almighty for choosing My Prince to be my boyfriend. We are both aware that we didn't choose each other. God himself in all His glory chose us and My Prince and I have no powers to resist, LOL! The distance and the separation weren't of any problem to us. It's the most wonderful relationship that any girl could dream of!

Live Life in Moderation

2010-01-30T14:31:00.000-08:00

My return to blogging entails a lot of time is again being spent infront of my PC. As a result of this, I couldn't help myself from lingering much interacting with blogpals. What seems to be physically evident is eye puffiness and the dark circles under my eyes.

Well, I am not at all worried. No reasons to fret because I know of the best eye cream for dark circles.

But for health reasons, I should not be tolerating myself from staying up so late. It won't be good for my blood pressure.

Well, for as long as I get a complete 8-hour of sleep a day, that should do it. And never forget my badminton sessions, too! Can't you tell I am hooked up? LOL!

Living life in moderation is the thing I should always remember. That will certainly create balance in every aspect of my life.

Gibberish Rantings

2010-01-27T06:53:00.001-08:00

I was out of town for two days to attend my cousin's wedding. When I arrived home today, I had to rush up because I still had to report for work. There's a helluva lot of things to do at work.

Sigh!

While I was with my family and relatives at the weddings' reception, I was hoping I could get to enjoy the celebration and forget about work altogether just for a few hours.

But what the heck! The night was spoiled just by one SMS received. It was about work, work, work! Can't it wait till I get back? This may sound crappy but spare me, please!

My mother and my relatives agreed in chorus that indeed it was trivial to inform me via SMS of the matter because nobody but me can resolve it. There was no sense letting me know by sending such agitating message. It's like I will be gone forever!

The sender finally got my point after I sent her a reply explaining stuffs, blah! blah! and she retorted back:

"I can now imagine your facial expression, LOL! We will just wait for you, Madam. Enjoy!"

And I replied bluntly:

"Enjoy? You just spoiled the night."

Anyways, pardon me for these gibberish rantings. The sender of the upsetting SMS really got under my skin. It's one of the few times where I lose my cool and I lose grip of my sanity.

I want to have it back. Hitting the sack might be the remedy. I better get going now.

Nytie nyt everyone! :-)

Not Only As A Hobby

2010-01-26T07:21:00.000-08:00

I suffered from a lot of stress last quarter of last year causing my acnes to sprout. I looked terrible! I was very desperate to find a solution trying all kinds of acne face wash. I can't believe being under pressure would cause me so much problems. My hypertension was the worst. I can contend with acnes and pimples but the hypertension was just too much to bear.

I am just glad that playing badminton made things a lot easier for me. It has become not only as a hobby but also my personal passion ;-)

Dream of Owning a 4-Wheeled Vehicle

2010-01-26T07:09:00.000-08:00

My dream of owning a car is still yet to materialize. I wonder when will it happen.

Currently at work, we've been going gaga over the purchase of a motorvehicle. We have been working on things quick because it is such a necessity especially that a lot of activities were awaiting for the boss to accomplish. Most of these activities are out-of-town.

I am not well-versed when it comes to motorvehicle parts or Ferrari parts. But I hope to own any kind of vehicle so long as it is four-wheeled ;-)

Struggling With My Health

2010-01-25T14:32:00.000-08:00

For a year now, I have been struggling with my health. I have a hard time getting the weight that I want. I gained 5 kilos prior to my confinement at the hospital in June. After that, I restrained myself from eating unhealthy foods including rice!

Yeah! Though it is considered to be the staple food for the Filipinos, I was able to resist the temptation of eating too much rice.

Aside from restraining myself in eating unhealthy foods, I also contemplate on taking up weight loss pills. I have yet to find a good one though. One that's effective and can be trusted. No side effects!

Do you know of one?

Belated Happy Birthday, Tita!

2010-01-23T22:58:00.000-08:00

For two years, my mother's elder sister (Ate in Filipino), has been celebrating her birthday with us. But again, just like my younger brother's birthday, we just decided to dine out.

My Aunt is a teacher by profession. And yes! Just like most teachers, she's a spinster. So on her birthday four days ago, she was basically alone. My mother invited her via SMS to celebrate her birthday with us. Our treat :-)

We certainly had a blast! We feasted on the sumptuous delicacies on the table. And yes! I lost control of myself and completely forgotten my diet. Tsk! Tsk! Tsk!

We took quite a handful of photos at the restaurant. That was a promise I've made to my Prince before leaving for dinner. And true enough, there were so many shots to show off!

Just like most Ate's, my Aunt took care of her younger sisters especially my mother. My mother was the youngest of eleven siblings. Their mother died when she was just two years old. So her Ate was left with no choice but to look after her.

Pretty Mama with her Ate

My Aunt finished school when she's a little older because there were so many things to attend to in their family. She had to put off school because her father couldn't afford it. Her elder sisters and herself needed to save up enough for school fees before she could enroll. All of them had to help each other so that they could have a degree and get a good job thereafter.

I admire my Aunt for all the sacrifices she's made for her sisters. She's known to be a mother to the youngest sister of all- my own mother. On her birthday, I wish her all the best. She may be blessed with good health, longer life, serenity, and God's loving grace.

Note: When we got home that night, I was so taken aback when it was announced at the WBE Blog that I was the third inductee to the 2010 Class of WBE Blog of Fame...

What a fun night that was!

For My Own Good

2010-01-22T03:19:00.000-08:00

Since I have been very purposeful in regaining back my health, I was thinking it would be a lot better if I could purchase a fitness equipment at home. It would make it very handy and convenient for me especially when it's raining and I can't do my daily walks. I wonder how much a treadmill or the bicycle costs. I am thinking of doing a canvass next week. Well, I hope I could find a better deal.

Getting a good exercise is something that I have been very willful to accomplish in a day. I know I will reap the effort I have been putting up the past of couple of months. It is for my own good.

Happy 101 on a Friday!

2010-01-21T14:37:00.000-08:00

I haven't been doing tags of late but I love to do this one all over again. This is the "Happy 101 Tag" from Pretty Maxi who blogs from Ovah' Coffee.

This task requires me to enumerate the 10 things that makes a simple person like me happy.

Here they are in random order:

I am just a simple girl with simple dreams. Seeing my family intact, in good health and safe from harm are only but a few things that give me a feeling of security and contentment.
When I think about the "big day" when I get to finally meet my Prince.
Daily communication with my guapo "Sayang" without fail!
Receiving beautiful presents from My Guapo Prince and Mummy Carol.
Blogging as a form of expression has brought me enormous joy.
Sincere friendships that has evolved through my blogging journey.
I always do my absolute best when I am accomplishing things. So when concerned parties give me a pat on the back by way of recognizing and appreciating my efforts whether it be at home, at work or across my blogs, that gives me more reasons to smile. I just got inducted to the WBE Blog of Fame and it made me truly happy!
When I get the chance to have a vacation or just a simple outing with my family... away from all the stress brought about by the toxic schedule at work :-)
When the going gets tough and I'm able to hurdle things despite the threats and challenges along the way.
When blood pressure hits the normal level.

The list actually goes beyond 10! There are so many reasons to be happy. But people tend to forget to count their blessings and they always dwell on the dark side of life. If we keep on dwelling on the negative aspects of life, happiness and contentment will eventually elude us.

Over and above these things, let us not forget to give back all the glory to God Almighty. He is the author of our lives and we are nothing without Him!

Feel free to do the tag if you feel like doing it.

Happy weekend everyone!

Elegance at Home

2010-01-20T14:36:00.000-08:00

One of the many things I love to acquire are home appliances and decors like wall sconce. It definitely adds color and life to the walls of our home. My brother is also one wall sconce freak. He has purchased different kinds and colors. The home looks perfectly lighted up! Elegance is the word that best describes the home when wall sconce is being used.

Happy Birthday, Brother Dear!

2010-01-16T22:45:00.001-08:00

It was on Friday, the 15th of January, when my brother celebrated his birthday. Unlike the previous years, there was no celebration at home. I find it too stressful to do all the preparations and later on find myself down and sick.

The birthday boys in the middle wearing black and white shirts

With my two siblings

It actually was a double celebration. Marcuz, a family friend, also celebrated his birthday. They used to celebrate their birthdays together since they were both kids. This year, they celebrated it together again ;-)

We just decided to dine out with family and some friends together with some of KUERDAS' members. Now, quick weight loss is forgotten here for awhile. I completely lost control of myself again! Sigh!

But dining out means no hassle. No stress. More reasons to smile and have fun, ain't yeah?

After dinner, we proceeded to watch Kuerdas gig at the Jamaican Night. It was a night filled with fun and laughter.

Kuerdas on stage

The brother absolutely had a blast on his big day.

Belated Happy Birthday, Brother Dearie! May your birthday be filled with more blessings and may you incessantly recognize God's presence in your life and continuously glorify His name.

M A X I

The Yearend Gift

2010-01-15T14:28:00.000-08:00

Our TV reminds of how kind and generous my Prince is. He was the one who bought our Samsung HDTV in 2007 when our old TV broke down. My team was playing in the semifinals at the time and I can't afford not to see them play. So my Prince deemed it best to have the TV as a year-end gift to me and my family.

When we did the canvass, it's a little hard to pick the best one because of the many brand names that are equally good. A variety of brands were available. I am just so glad that we were able to pick one according to our budget.

Anniversary Gifts

2010-01-13T17:23:00.000-08:00

Last Saturday, my Prince and I celebrated our 3-year anniversary across the distance. I must say this is just the beginning of our journey to forever.

As early as the first week of December, I have been thinking long and hard on what I should send my Prince for a gift. In fact, the ordeal wasn't only experienced by me but my Prince as well, LOL! He even said that for three years, we've almost sent everything there is to send that is why we are having such a hard time on what to give each other.

My Prince forewarned me not to send expensive gifts. He told me that cards will do but knowing me, he knew that cards wouldn't be enough, hehe!

I wanted to give him simple yet memorable gifts. My co-workers suggested some novelty items and I loved the idea. It's not the first time though that I have sent him items from the Philippines. I have done it on several occasions.

Finally! I was able to think of something ;-)

This is a customized mouse pad. My co-worker and I were searching for some items when we passed by Personal Effects at Robinsons Mall. They have been making items for special occasions such as birthdays, weddings, baptismals, anniversaries and etc. The items that caught my fancy were custom mouse pads. It was the first time I saw such items. I chose the layout myself courtesy of an online scrap booking site and the result was shown above.

I also bought him a novelty shirt from Bench showing off the the words: I Love Pinas! And of course! A beautiful card went along with these items.

So simple, aint yeah? ;-)

And oh! My mother sent him an anniversary greeting card , too!

The gifts were sent on the 23rd of December 2009 and was delivered on their doorstep on the 1st of January 2010- eight days before our anniversary :-) Just the way I wanted it.

During the course of my search for the anniversary gifts, I haven't forgotten to buy some stuffs for Mummy Carol. It has been both a tradition by me and My Prince to always send both Mummies some mementos and cards. I bought Mummy a purse and a wallet because I knew how she loves these items. I also bought some fridge magnetic decors made from the Philippines.

And how she loved them all!

Here's our anniversary gifts for each other last year:

FROM ME WITH ALL MY LOVE

Customized Couple Shirt:

Front::

Back:

Pre-made Bracelet:

I'm Yours Forever

- Lainy

FROM MY GUAPO PRINCE WITH LOVE

Guess Wallet

Fan and Jewelry Set

Unfortunately, the fan and jewelry set wasn't for me. It was given by my Prince for my mother, hehe!

I am still awaiting for My Princes' anniversary gifts this year. He bought a purse for my Mom this time around but never disclosed what he bought for me.

A N N E!

Saving Up for My Future

2010-01-12T15:17:00.000-08:00

I have been paying for my insurance for almost a year now. Thank God my mother works as an insurance agent on the side so life insurance quote was not so difficult to acquire. The best thing about insurances is that you're investing for something long lasting while you are still very productive. The money grows over the year and I will eventually reap my investment when the time comes that I am no longer productive.

Indeed, there is no better way to prepare for my own future than NOW.

Ending 2009 in Thanksgiving!

2010-01-10T15:43:00.000-08:00

Despite the highs and lows of 2009, my family never forgot to glorify the Lord for all the blessings He bestowed on us. The Yearend Thanksgiving at church was the best avenue for us to recognize and glorify the Lord's magnificent deeds.

With pretty Mama...

With Co-finance officers...

There are so many things that we should thank the Lord for. The space here could not suffice for all the great things the Lord has done for me and my entire family.

But for the sake of blogging, let me just enumerate:

I am still alive and kicking. It is such a blessing that I am still breathing. With the many tragedies that befall man nowadays, it is a stroke of luck that I had my own share of laughs in 2009 and I’m giving back all the glory to Him… I am still struggling on my health aspect but I am doing tremendous effort in regaining my health. I couldn't just sit here and wait for the stars to fall down and wish that I become healthy effortlessly. I have to work hard on it and I know that the reward will be so much sweeter.
A survivor. Amidst life’s many difficulties and struggles, I was able to surpass it all. Though not as tough as anybody else but I believe I did well.
Sense of Belongingness. It is such a blessing to have my family and friends who stood by me come hell or high water. The feeling that I have a home for a refuge is such a relief. Thanks for always soothing my nerves and massaging my ego.

There are still too many to name on God’s glorious deeds and I just can’t help but count them to no avail.

It’s C-O-U-N-T-L-E-S-S!

Now, I am humbly offering my thanks and uttermost praises to the Almighty Father whom I believe as the provider of everything – my life, my faith, my inner peace, the material blessings I receive and everything that makes me end each passing day with joy and tranquility. He has indeed done remarkable works not only for me but also to my entire family.

Recognizing this, my heart overflow with thankfulness to Him. I know that nothing can be enough to repay God’s infinite goodness. Not even by giving up my own life can I requite for His kindness, for even the very life I have truly belongs to Him.

Yet, I am bound always to remember His glorious deeds, to return to Him in genuine recognition of His unfailing love, and to thank Him for being everything to me, for without Him in my life, I’m nothing.

A N N E!

Growing Old Gracefully

2010-01-08T14:59:00.000-08:00

My Prince's family and me are all too overwhelmed and excited for the newly-born twins, Jaiden and Joshua. Though I still have to see them via photos, I can just imagine that both babies are very cute and adorable like their Uncle ;-)

Pretty Mummy J sure have took good care of the twins while she was still pregnant. They're complete with prenatal vitamins that is why I know that they will grow up to be healthy kids.

Just like their Ate Aleisha.

How time flies so fast! Now I can't stop the clock from ticking!

If only I can. Sigh!

As the babies grow up, I can't help but feel so old, LOL!

Well, that's life and we should deal with growing old gracefully.

Welcome to the World, Joshua and Jaiden!

2010-01-08T14:04:00.000-08:00

It was in 2007 when my bestfriend gave birth prematurely. The baby died a few hours later because of heart problems. Being born after 7 months, she wasn't able to cope. I wonder what was the cause of such untimely demise.

Just last week, my Prince happily informed me via SMS that he is an Uncle again of two cute and adorable baby boys- Joshua and Jaiden.

Yes folks! They've got twins in the family!

I so admired Jeanette (my Princes' sis-in-law), for she was able to give birth normally to two healthy baby boys. Prior to giving birth, she was complete with prenatal vitamins and all other necessary nutrients needed by her body. Just click here for added details and information.

When she found out she's to have twins, the family was all too excited! I can just imagine Mummy Carol's face upon learning of the news. By choice, the couple (Jeanette and Mark) did not undergo further tests to know the twins' gender. They wanted to expect the babies with so much excitement.

And excitement it truly was! Joshua and David was born!

Fabulous Holiday With Friends, Family and Relatives

2010-01-06T03:44:00.000-08:00

The last few days of 2009 were mostly spent with family, friends and relatives. Apart from being busy at work, I saw to it that the trip to Paradise Island was planned very well. I had to meet up with our family friend twice to be able to discuss some stuffs with her on how to maximize our stay at the Island and some other parts of Davao.

With Ate Nimfa, Crison, my brothers and their respective girlfriends

Before the planned escapade, my relatives from my mother side of the family, came over to visit us and some places in GenSan. It was a sudden change in their schedule as they already had informed us that they can't make it because they were all busy preparing for my cousin's wedding. But since they can't let this time of the year pass without having to spend some time with family and relatives, they had to take the long route.

Soon-to-be Mr. & Mrs. Razo

With my Pretty Mama, Tita, cousins and Sarah

The highlight of the said reunion was when my mother and her elder sisters had to speak in front of everybody and gave updates as to what happened to their respective families for 2009. Each one got very emotional and can't help the tears streaming down their cheeks while sharing their achievements, triumphs, and defeats to each family members.

Despite the highs and lows of 2009, our family was able to hurdle life's challenges and adversities. Indeed, the great Father Almighty was with us and He will always be all through the rest of our lives.

A N N E!

Speaking Without Bias

2010-01-05T03:24:00.000-08:00

My Prince is turning thirty-seven this year. He was only thirty-four when we knew each other. How time flies so fast!

It has been three years since we became friends and eventually decided to enter into a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. My prince would often tell me that he is getting older and older which I would always vehemently disagree. It is because unlike the guys of the same age as he is, he doesn't look like he is in his 30's at all! Guys in their 30's usually have big tummies and yes! hair loss for men gets very common espeially when they reach the prime of their lives. My Prince is slowly losing his hair on the front but he still looks so guapo!

That is speaking without bias, hehe!

Wish Us Luck!

2009-12-31T17:16:00.000-08:00

One of the few things I look forward to in 2010 is the long holiday that My Prince and I have been planning since a long time ago. We haven't been thinking of going out much but of course sometimes I can't help but wish we could get to visit some other places like Mexico, hehe.

I have heard there are hotels in cancun that we can stay on whenever we get to decide to go abroad. But for now, we stick with our original plan. He will get to visit me here in the Philippines as well as my family and the rest shall be planned and ironed out when we see each other.

Wish us all luck, guys!

The Roller Coaster Ride of Life

2009-12-31T13:55:00.000-08:00

Life takes us on a roller coaster ride of emotions, up and down and all around. The twist and turns...

How happy and joyful the ride for 2009 was! But it also has its moments of sadness and sorrows.

Handling life's difficulties is always a challenge and also a very interesting time to realize one's strengths and abilities.

The problems we hurdle in our day to day existence is definitely a test of character. It is in that manner that we grow and mature as individuals. Life belongs to those who go until they run into something that they haven't encountered before and learn how to beat it. The people who can handle life's curve-balls the best are the ones who will likely succeed the most.

In pondering about this, I have learned a few things which I would like to share:

Good things come to those that wait. My personal experience about waiting is something that can't beat anyone's imagination. My Prince and I are turning 3 a few days from now. Yet, we both believe that "patience is a virtue and that it requires a lot of waiting." We are taking it one day at a time. Of course, things always seem to take more time than we realize but we are both enjoying the process. The realization that we are building both something valuable and our knowledge for the future keeps us holding on tight to what we have.
Everything is an opportunity. Life is what we make it. Some are blinded in making the right choices. More often, opportunities are in disguise but life's challenges makes one a better person to contend with! This reminds me of the adage: "The greater the sacrifice, the sweeter the prize"!
Problems will always arise yet nearly everything has a solution. Some thinks that they are in the dark and it seems that solution to every problem is not possible. The lack of desire to solve a problem is not the way to beat it. There is always a first time for everything. But everything is learned. Knowledge and experience is everywhere, we just need to look for it.
Don't let your emotions get in the way in making the right choices. Whatever is holding you back, learn to let go of your emotions. Set yourself free from any grudges, ill-feelings and sufferings. Learn to let go. No regrets, only lessons!
Life is short. It is too short to be wasted on crap. We should focus our energies on something valuable and worthwhile. Something that will make us better persons, better individuals.

The year that was indeed was filled with so much learnings. Each day is a different thrill. Some personal expectations have been met career-wise. I have failed on the health category though. But it isn't enough reason for me to give up. I am even more willful and determined for a healthier me in 2010! I can't expect things to go right every time. Bad things happen. But without the bitter experiences, the sweet wouldn't taste so good!

FROM MY FAMILY TO YOURS,

MAY YOU ALL HAVE A HAPPY AND BLESSED NEW YEAR!

A L L Y!

Worth Every Penny

2009-12-30T18:21:00.000-08:00

Since I was diagnosed to have hypertension in June 2009, the pimples kept bugging my ugly face, LOL! The doctor told me that it is not because of the medicines I am taking. It's probably because I have been stressed up and also because of the hormonal imbalance.

Apart from the pimples, the thing that kept bugging me was the use of eyeglasses everytime I am infront of the PC at home. It's thickness kept the dark circles around my eyes. I have asked my ophthalmologist of the best eye creams. He suggested one to me and I can't wait to see the positive result.

It is definitely worth every penny!

Contemplating on Finishing my Graduate School Studies

2009-12-30T14:56:00.000-08:00

I have met a former Graduate School classmate at the mall a couple of days back. We've had quite a long chit-chat regarding our plans for the future. We've also talked about some other classmates who were able to finish the degree and was able to march on graduation day.

Like me, he wasn't able to pursue the degree as working with the World Vision Foundation demands more of his time and focus. Incidentally, one of his co-workers, which was my classmate in college and at the same time a great buddy of mine, enrolled via online university. This was the very first time I have heard of this and it really piqued my interest. I got more interested when he mentioned that quite a number of people have already enrolled and graduated. We've planned about trying it out. We are now on the course of carefully looking into the school curriculum.

I will have to update you more about this most probably when I have already done enrolling myself to the online business degree.

A Day in the Life of Lainy

2009-12-25T17:23:00.000-08:00

December 25 started out very early. It may sound ridiculous but I have been waking up at 4Am everyday since I got really, really serious in doing my daily walks. I woke up from the repetitive droning sound of the alarm clock at exactly 4:30. At 5am, my mother and Sarah (my brother's girlfriend) and yours truly were out of the house. They decided to accompany me with my routinary daily walks. I usually do it in my lonesome.

My groovy mother with Sarah

That's me with Pretty Mama!

Sarah stealing shots behind our backs!

Sarah was all too excited to see the newly-inaugurated 35 million General Santos Park. She was able to see it only in the photos across my blogs. But before she could have a glimpse of the beautiful park, we were terrified to see the remnants of a fire that took place on Christmas Eve. All the stalls in the flea market selling fireworks caught fire.

The sight was horrible! There were different kinds of firecrackers scattered on the streets and the stores across the road were damaged as well. All the glass doors were broken!

It was reported that there was one person killed and a few others were brought to the hospital. I feel for the families who were trying real hard to make a living out of this once-a-year celebration.

Anyways, we proceeded with our walk. Finally, Sarah was able to see the park! It would take a 45-minute walk from our house before we finally reached our destination. As it is Christmas, not too many people were having their walks.

Sarah and yours truly!

Mother and daughter tandem!

Ehem!

Me and Mama!

Sarah and yours truly walked back home after a few rounds of walk in the park while mother walked her way to the market. She prepared a really delicious meal for lunch which was just too hard to resist!

Oh man! I lost control of my diet again! Sigh!

We planned of going to the movies and watch the much talked about movie "Avatar". To our dismay, there was no English movie in the two cinemas we went to. This is to give way for the Metro Manila Film Festival. We ended up seeing the move "I Love You... Goodbye". It wasn't too bad a movie but I have observed that there were quite a handful who are queuing for "Ang Panday". My mother was ridiculously happy that there was no English movie shown as she would end up sleeping if we did choose to see one, LOL!

After the movies, we decided to do our grocery shopping. It wasn't planned but since my mother convinced me to do it while there weren't too many people on queue at the cashier, it made sense. We accidentally met my relatives (Mystique's family), at the food court of the mall. They were also very disappointed not being able to watch Avatar. What's really with this movie, huh?!

Sarah, being the photo freak that she is, kept taking steal shots of me. That gave me all the more reason to blog about how my day turned out to be, LOL!

Sending SMS to my Mama asking where in the world she was???!!!

Sarah was stopped on her tracks though when she was told by the Internal Guard (I.G.) that it is prohibited to take pics inside of the groceries. What an embarrassing moment that was! LOL!

I was dead tired when we reached home. I could hardly move my legs! My mind still wants to be with Sarah to watch Kuerdas at the Jamaican Night gig but my body refuses to. In the end, it was only Sarah who was able to watch them perform on stage. But I will make it up for it tonight, hehehe!

Dark Circles Under Eye No More!

2009-12-24T18:58:00.000-08:00

As of late, I have been frequently using my eyeglasses when I am infront of the PC. This caused me to have dark circles under eye. It has been a problem when I still don't use contact lenses when I was still in college. I even asked my ophthalmologist on how to get rid of it. I feel really uncomfortable looking at it and it makes me look so old and even uglier, LOL!

Good thing,the cream the doctor prescribed me worked to my advantage. No more dark circles under my eyes now and I can smile with confidence without having to worry about it.

The Planned Get-Away

2009-12-24T14:50:00.000-08:00

The family is planning to have a get-away at Davao City which is a 3-hour drive from General Santos. The planned vacation shall take place on the first day of 2010. It shall be a three-day break before work resumes on the 4th of January. We have been making careful planning as to what places to go to for us to be able to maximize the 3-day vacation. Our itinerary includes Paradise Island, Zip City, the malls, my Aunt's residence and some bars for Kuerdas to jam ;-)

We have been preparing our luggages as early as now. It isn't a long trip but of course we would like to have everything prepared. We will be bringing Ewoks with us, too. Mother has been nagging me to look for a Samsonite luggage. Well, it's my first time to hear about it but I did some research and found out that they have a wide variety of luggages to choose from. Now, mother just gave me an idea where to look for the best luggages in town!

Ewoks is Sick and Down!

2009-12-23T14:34:00.000-08:00

The family's little baby is not in his normal self the past couple of days. He is the naughtiest baby I have ever met that's why seeing him behaving in the corner of my room is a little way out of the ordinary.

Last month, we brought him to the vet for a checkup. His digestive system got some problems. Good thing he was not advised for confinement. After a month of recuperation from the illness, he's again beginning to feel weak He just sits quietly and doesn't feel like playing anymore.

The entire family was all worried again. Yesterday, he was brought to the vet for the second time in a span of 4 weeks for a general checkup. We were instructed to be very careful with the food we are giving him and we should see to it that he is chewing his food very well. We should serve him the food in bits and pieces so as to make sure that he won't swallow it whole.

This morning, he was up to his feet once more. He loves playing with his toys and with the boys. I can't wait to see him back to his naughty, normal self again!

Get well quick, Baby Ewoks!

A L L Y!

Motorhome Towing

2009-12-22T14:35:00.000-08:00

My brother has been nagging me about getting a family car. I know it is a must these days to have our own car but the budget won't suffice for now. I am thinking of getting a loan for us to be able to purchase a new car. We are still thinking as to what model to get but it will all depend on the available budget.

I was amazed to know how time has evolved! Many services are now being offered on the road like the ones offered by www.goodsamers.com. It provides guaranteed RV Emergency Road Service. At least now there is a trusted company that offers motorhome towing. Now we know who to call!

I Lost My Passport...

2009-12-15T03:32:00.000-08:00

One of the many things I've accomplished today was to search for my passport which was inadvertently lost in the vicinity of my own room. Thanks to our dumb househelp, grrrrrr! She must have burnt it along with some other important documents. I should have followed my guts and fired her after the first day at home but I gave her too many chances.

Scene 1: There was one instance where I've asked her to give me a scratch paper. What she gave me was my internet bill.

Scene 2: I went home for lunch at 12 nn. She was told in the morning to prepare veggies. When I got home, she just started out slicing the ingredients at 12nn. I need to go back to work at 1pm. I took a nap while I waited for the food to be served on the table. When I woke up, she still has to cook rice to go with the viand she prepared! I went to work on an empty stomach

It's just a few of the many instances where my BP surged from deep disappointment. The househelp's performance was quite dismal.

Anyways, back to my lost passport. I tried to search for it in every nook and cranny. The effort exerted proved to be futile.

I've called up the Department of Foreign Affairs and asked for advice on what to do since my passport is still valid until December of 2010. They said I have to reapply as a new applicant. I have to submit the necessary requirements like Police Blotter Report, Affidavit of Loss, passport size ID pictures and NSO original birth certificate. What's striking was that I have to wait 3 months for me to be able to reapply!

Gosh!

It's just too much for me to bear! The DFA personnel tried to appease me by saying it won't take that long if I could provide a scanned copy of my lost passport.

Good thing I have one!

I am still in the process of completing the requirements. I got the Police Blotter Report today where the process was quite stressful.

Sigh!

M A R I U C A!

Good Investment

2009-12-14T21:49:00.000-08:00

When I had the root canal session with my new dentist, that is when I realized how important it is to take extra good care of our teeth. It sure did cost me a bomb!

Prevention is always better than cure, as the adage says. I have learned that dental implants Plano are the trend today to make our teeth good. That will make one very confident especially in showing off their teeth. I have heard quite a handful of the celebrities here in the Philippines have already undergone such kind of treatment.

Oh well! It is no wonder. They have the resources.

As for me, I need to work so hard for me to be able to save up enough for it. Indeed, it is one investment that would surely last a lifetime!

SMILE! ;-)